tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-965341050916021746.post1722564241041509347..comments2023-06-07T07:36:39.547-07:00Comments on The Diary of Kitty Cavalier: Seduction Series Week #3: How To Never Be BoringKitty Cavalierhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12500018710043775739noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-965341050916021746.post-88991454368370741512013-01-22T08:22:22.859-08:002013-01-22T08:22:22.859-08:00Sweet Kim, I so respect your courageous journey an...Sweet Kim, I so respect your courageous journey and your vulnerability to post it hear. I love the last line of your comment "I'm already seducing a life that will make my soul sing". Gorgeous! Seducing the world, one truth at a time. Kitty Cavalierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12500018710043775739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-965341050916021746.post-86168300786762981732013-01-22T08:20:42.694-08:002013-01-22T08:20:42.694-08:00Awwww, blushing!Awwww, blushing!Kitty Cavalierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12500018710043775739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-965341050916021746.post-19184142226465428842013-01-22T08:20:22.876-08:002013-01-22T08:20:22.876-08:00Steph, I totally agree, truth always equals love! ...Steph, I totally agree, truth always equals love! Kitty Cavalierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12500018710043775739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-965341050916021746.post-90465824556935051032013-01-18T06:28:55.729-08:002013-01-18T06:28:55.729-08:00I have post traumatic stress disorder from 20 year...I have post traumatic stress disorder from 20 years in a verbally abusive marriage. We haven't lived together for 11 1/2 months. Lawyers have been hired; courts have been petitioned. Learning to say no to things I do not want in my life has been very hard for me. I feel enormously vulnerable. The only think I know for sure is that staying in that marriage would have killed me and leaving it sends a powerful message to my 3 daughters. And so I continue to say no to things that don't feel right, continue to work through my fears in therapy, and trust that in time what I do want will become more and more clear to me, and that I'm already seducing a life that will make my soul sing.Kim Lnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-965341050916021746.post-22333991089045751722013-01-17T19:19:16.762-08:002013-01-17T19:19:16.762-08:00You are such a friggin' genius Kitty!!!! I don...You are such a friggin' genius Kitty!!!! I don't think i've ever heard "saying no" framed in such a pleasurable, TRUE way. I bow down to your exquisite, seductive genius.Carissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02323663082709967780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-965341050916021746.post-46285863991018636372013-01-17T17:31:10.272-08:002013-01-17T17:31:10.272-08:00Speaking my truth is a huge challenge. I am commit...Speaking my truth is a huge challenge. I am committed to to speaking with love whenever possible, and I'm just now figuring out how to language that. It also involves, for me, taking complete ownership of my experience. I've been having a hard time because I am surrounded by highly sensitive people who offend easily. But on the flip side, it's been a great learning experience.<br /><br />I am excited for next week's blog. I am so ready to learn about seductive timing!Stephhttp://www.stephanieslawek.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-965341050916021746.post-57224246420225069042013-01-17T12:45:56.559-08:002013-01-17T12:45:56.559-08:00Thanks Kate! So glad you enjoyed it. Flushed chee...Thanks Kate! So glad you enjoyed it. Flushed cheeks are sexy! :)Kitty Cavalierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12500018710043775739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-965341050916021746.post-64972747857225713742013-01-17T10:09:06.918-08:002013-01-17T10:09:06.918-08:00Wow. And then, wow. Thank you! Somewhere around ...Wow. And then, wow. Thank you! Somewhere around middle school age, we women (girls) develop a shell, a "never let the other girls see you cry" mentality that keeps us from being real. Your bit about being real, of being okay with the dry mouth and flushed cheeks is sooo important. I am just now breaking out of my shell-of-protection forged decades ago to risk being real again. You are so right. We need to allow ourselves to feel what we feel and even (gasp) vocalize it. Wonderful!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08231023763978594097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-965341050916021746.post-52430806584421561042013-01-17T09:06:27.446-08:002013-01-17T09:06:27.446-08:00Tippy you ARE exquisite! I love those words, full ...Tippy you ARE exquisite! I love those words, full and rounded out vs. flinty and sharp. Yes, I totally agree. It reminds me of a quote from Queen Victoria: "Great events make me quiet and calm; it is only trifles that irritate my nerves." Helps make those breathtaking moments feel more thrilling than scary. xoKitty Cavalierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12500018710043775739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-965341050916021746.post-33462356078984662152013-01-17T06:50:53.830-08:002013-01-17T06:50:53.830-08:00I agree with what you're saying Kitty. And it&...I agree with what you're saying Kitty. And it's a heady experience when you tell the truth and attract what you truly want. Devastating when you tell the truth and find you've repelled someone/something. There can be a time lag between the repelling and my realization that who/what I repelled wasn't truly what I wanted. I'd love your ideas on making that period of time, which can be quite excruciating, more full and rounded out - less flinty and sharp.<br />Exquisitely yours,<br />TippyTippynoreply@blogger.com